Finding suitable party games for teenagers, or tweenagers, can be tricky business, but we have some great teenage birthday party games that even your ‘coolest’ teenagers will enjoy.

There’s a fine line between organising some fun games for your teenager’s party, and embarrassing the heck out of them. The problem is – you’ll have no idea where that line is drawn!

For the most part, it’s a good idea to let your teenager organise the party on their own, or with teen friends (with strict guidelines of course), and when it comes to the games, your teenager will definitely want to be the host. The last thing a 13 or 14 year old wants is Mum or Dad clapping their hands and getting everybody into a circle!

With that in mind, here are some great indoor party games that you may want to suggest to your teen. They’ll be able to adapt them to suit their friends, and maybe even change the name so it sounds like their idea. Here goes…

8 Great Party Games for Teens and Tweens – Tried and true

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1. Balloon Dare

Eat 1 whole sardine

Write out a dare for every guest at the party, and slip each one into a balloon before blowing it up and tying the knot. One at a time, the guests choose a balloon and pop it to find the dare. Your guests then have to do the dare, or suffer the consequences.

Dares don’t have to be embarrassing, instead they could be more of a challenge (think Fear Factor or Treasure Island). Maybe they have to eat something out-of-the-ordinary like baby squid, or perhaps they need to complete a physical task. Check out our Fear Factor article for more ideas.

Consequences shouldn’t be embarrassing either, but rather something grossly fun. Maybe they have to eat a plate of custard with no hands, or agree to have the birthday child paint their face. Remember consequences shouldn’t be threatening or humiliating.

When preparing this game, you may want to talk to your teen about what dares are appropriate, and have the final say as to what goes in the balloon. You will also need to agree on a consequence that is safe and appropriate in your home. Good luck!

2. Truth, Truth, Lie

When your guests arrive, give them each a card to write down three facts about themselves. Two of the things must be true, and one of them must be a lie. When you’re ready to play the game, have each guest read out their facts, and everybody else must try to work out the lie. The person who guesses the most ‘lies’ correctly – wins!

This game works really well if there’s a good prize for winning, like a giant-sized chocolate bar, or cool make-up item. If there’s a prize to play for it’s surprising how serious people get about winning!

3. Guess that tune

Party games for teenagers - Guess that tune

Get a selection of CDs, or Spotify playlist together. Get your guests to try to guess each song, by only playing a few seconds of music. You could play the first few beats, or to make it even harder, record a small snippet from the middle of each song.

This is a great game to play in teams of 2-3 people. And like the game above you can really ramp it up by including a prize at the end. It’s also lots of fun to include spot prizes of chocolates or lollies to dish out during the game!

4. Winks

This is a great game for a party with both boys and girls, and works best with lots of guests. If your teen is still in the early stages of ‘liking boys’ (or girls), then this game can be lots of fun.

Set up a circle of chairs, and have all the girls take a seat. The boys then take their place standing behind a girl of their choice, with one boy standing behind an empty chair. The boy with an empty chair winks at a girl, who then jumps up to take the empty spot. If the boy behind her tags her shoulders before she gets away, she must stay seated. If she makes it out of the chair, the game continues with a new winker.

How you play this game will depend on the number of girls vs. boys at the party. If the numbers aren’t even, make sure you jumble it up so there is more than one same-sex pair to begin with. Having a mixture of pairs will stop any teasing that may occur.

5. Wink Murder

Party games for teenagers - Wink murder

Have all the guests close their eyes, and choose one guest to be the murderer by tapping them on the shoulder. All the other guests are detectives. When everyone opens their eyes, the murderer must start ‘killing’ off the detectives by winking at them one by one. If a guest is winked at, they need to die – very dramatically – so everyone knows they have been killed.

If a guest thinks they can solve the mystery (i.e. who the murderer is), they can shout out their name. If they are right, they win the game, but if they are wrong, they have to die. If the murderer manages to kill all the guests and get down to one last detective without being found out, the murderer wins.

6. Nail Polish Spin the Bottle

Bottles of nail polish on a colorful wooden table

At the risk of sounding politically incorrect, this is a game for girls.

Have your guests sit in a circle, and place several different nail polishes around the inside. The birthday girl starts by spinning a soft drink bottle in the middle of the circle, and then painting one fingernail with whichever polish it ends up pointing at. The guests then take turns spinning the bottle, and painting one finger nail in the chosen colour. The game continues until everybody has all 10 nails painted in different polish.

7. T-Shirt Keepsake

Party games for teenagers - painted shirt party game idea

Teenagers like the idea of having a keepsake, especially one they can show off. Purchase a plain coloured T-Shirt, and a few tubes of fabric paint. As each guest arrives get them to sign their name, write a message, or draw a picture for the birthday teen. They can even go all out and do hand or even footprints just for fun!

If your child doesn’t want a T-shirt, you could use a pillowcase or cushion cover instead.

Fabric paints are available from good craft stores for approximately $5 per tube. Look for brands that don’t need specialist setting, but instead simply dry by themselves or can be heat-set using an iron or hair dryer.

8. The Chocolate Game

Party games for teenagers - The chocolate game

This is a twist on that classic kid’s party game The Chocolate Game.

Just like in the classic game, have your guests sit in a circle, and put a block of chocolate, a knife and fork, a dice, and a selection of dress up clothes in the middle. Guests take turns throwing the dice, and when they get a 6, they have to put on the dress up clothes, and start eating the chocolate one piece at a time using the knife and fork. You get to keep eating until somebody else throws a 6, at which time they must put down the knife and fork, and pass over the clothes as quickly as possible.

There are two great twists you can play. One is by choosing a themed selection of clothing, the 60s or the 80s are always fun to dress up as. The more far out the clothes are, the more the hysterics will take over during the game!

The second twist is to play the game in pairs, with two dice. Guests must both roll either double 6s or double 1s at the same time to be ‘in’. Have two lots of clothes to put on (you could choose gangster or pirate style clothes), and in this version of the game your guests must cut the chocolate and feed it to each other. This version is really hard to actually get any chocolate, and really hilarious as a result!

Last thoughts

Even though our great party games for teenagers are really great, your teenager may not want any sort of games at their party at all. They may instead choose to just ‘hang out’.

That’s totally fine if there are only 2 or 3 friends invited, and they all get on really well. But if there’s more than that, then cliques can start to form without planned entertainment. Even for a ‘hang out’ party we recommend having a few planned activities, or some form of entertainment, so no one gets left ‘hanging’.

If you’re a parent and just wading into the minefield of teenagers birthday parties, you’ll definitely want to read our article Tips for negotiating teen birthday parties. Or for more expert party advice, check out our Teen’s Birthday section.

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this was a good article

Jarrod Rendle

Glad you enjoyed it!

Samara Queen

how do I play the games

Jarrod Rendle

Ummm, the instructions are kind of in the article? — Jarrod


i love these games. my favourite was balloon dare. thq so much. you guys were really helpful.

Jarrod Rendle

Glad we could help! — Jarrod


It’s great that so many people love these games. I’m just sad that some lame people use such horrible language and surprised that Kiwi Families aren’t able to block or take down those comments.

Jarrod Rendle

We believe everyone has the right to comment, good or bad. And it’s important for us to hear from, and learn from, our readers. At the end of the day I guess some people just don’t like having fun 🙂 — Jarrod

Jenjo Games

This is such an interesting list of party games, perfect for young ones to have an amazing time. Thanks for sharing these ideas. I am sure it would help many!

Jarrod Rendle

Thanks for sharing your thoughts! — Jarrod

Teen World

Can I use this party games for my daughter next party? I’m also read this blog article about party games for teenagers:


These are amazing thanks ^^

Aaleyah Dougherty

I agree with everyone else”disapointed birthday girl” im turning 13 in a week and i am loving these games for my birthday party. Maybe you need to research games for 100 yr olds if you think these are 8 yr old material


Thanks Aaleyah, glad to know you love some of the game ideas, and have a great birthday 🙂 !

Allizay Dean

i think they r awesome


Thanks! We hope you get to play some of them.

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Carmyn Alyssa

these games look really cool its my birthday soon and i want games to play


Cool as, I hope the party goes well! — Jarrod


well im turning 14 and these r so lame so i fill u [disappointed birthday girl]


Was very fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Frickin love these games especislly wink murder

Elizabeth Barry

Saying the nail polish game is for girls is incorrect and just reenforces gender roles created by internalized misogyny in our society. Don’t gender games. Besides that there are some good ideas here.


Gimme a break. Boys and girls. Science. Biology. x and y chromosomes. Sex not gender. Get out of woke la la land.

Jarrod Rendle

OK. We’re proud to be woke. But thanks for your comment 🙂


…..but I can’t wink


Ill make sure ill do this


I’m having a party these sound epic


I’m turning 13 and these are really cool. My favorites are the balloon dare and name the song.


going o 14, and a lot of these are actually fun. not sure about the overprotective parent stuff lol, but I like how there not to raunchy but not babyish. They are perfect for when you have boys and girls.


i’m adding on to my last comment. for my keepsake tshirt i’m going to have all my friends sign the back and use fabric marker on front to put the age i am turing. 🙂

Rochelle Gribble

Sounds like a great idea! Hope you have fun 🙂


My favorit thing out of this entire artical is the keepsake tshirt

im 13

These are good ideas!


I am turning 14 and these games r wayy to kiddish for me…


This article is simply amazing! im turning 13 and these games are exactly what i was looking for! theyre not too kiddish or not too grow up! thank you

Birthday Girl

Great Games

Dissapointed with the options

nevermind they are cool

Dissapointed with the options

These are good for children younger a teenager would definatly NOT want t-shirt with weird paint every where that looks bad


idk what to do for my 13th party because my friends are coming over and they are all girls but i want to invite my boyfriend but i am afraid he might feel uncomfortable because there is a bunch of girls and if i invite his friend he probably wont talk to me the only boy that will also be there is my nephew. Please help what should i do?


What the shit you have a boyfriend omfg that is so disgusting your parents should be ashamed of you you cunt


That is so rude why would you say that there is nothing wrong with having a boyfriend

Jarrod Rendle

Hey there, I’m not sure I really understand this comment. — Jarrod


hey bella


You should invite all of your girlfriends boyfriends as well and make it a bit like a mini prom


I will be turning 13 at the end of November and these games look fun to me. I think my friend would like them as well. I have one pretty crazy one, than another that is a little bit girly, the other well she’s just weird, but that’s what make her fun. I am inviting one other we used to be great friends and we would hang out a lot but then she just kind of drifted off and now hangs out with her school friends. She is really nice though and I still invite her to all my parties,… Read more »

Sally @ Kiwi Families

Kia ora GodRocks… We posted your request for advice to our Facebook friends, you can read their advice here: – if you need me to email you the posts, please let me know – Hope you have a wonderful party!


thank you this will relley help organize my birthday party as i will be 13 on the 5 of august

Silvers Sweetie

Me and my friends loved these games! Thanx for the ideas! :)) ^^

the commenter

worst party ever


i love the wink murder game. My friends loved it!!!

Disappointed Birthday Girl

these games are better for like 8 year olds i turned twelve and they were too kiddish for my friends


i’m turning 18, I think there awesome!!!!


lol im having a co ed sleepover and im turning 16 and all my friends find them amazingly fun!


really, im 14 and i play some of these games the whole class enjoys and joins in, might also be because of the fact we have an awsome teacher, other games may be like space jump when you start acting one thing and a diffrent person jumps in when the scenarios getting old with a new scenario with the current positions, eg motor bikes to old people walking.


Umm.. Excuse me but I’m turning 13 and these games are AMAZING!!!!


Maybe they’re not fun because you aren’t a teenager. You’re barely twelve. Lol i’m 15 and these are ridiculously fun!


You are soooo right.I’m 13 and i think they are soooo FUN!!!!!




they r lame and im turning 14

Carmyn Alyssa

they r cool games jeez


Oh please If u dont have anything else to say shut your mouth girls at age of 14 these days are acting like sluts in my opinion and that’s lame

Kittenkat lover834

I play these games every year and if anything they get more fun every year because you are coming to the age where you want to make life long friends and games like these will help you learn things about each other that you may have not known before


Thanks for your comment, and glad to hear you liked them! — Jarrod


I like




With school shootings, I’d like to see the “murder” game replaced by “zap” or “splat”. Just a thought.


your suggestion is a fucking bad idea seriously “zap” and “splat” this is what it makes it interesting you motherfucker


I don’t think it matters because it’s not literally. duhhh

dooms day party planer !!!

thanks alot


they sound okay but not really adult like games because i wouldn’t really want my parents looking and watching over everything im doing with my friends mates (kiss spin truth or dare are good games that i would eccomend as a teen) and it just makes it more fun with embarrasing truths because it gives you a challange 😉




Really cool ideas Thanks ! the girls loved them

Rochelle Gribble

Oh great!!! So glad everyone had fun 😉 



great ideas!

Rochelle Gribble

Glad you like them!!! 

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